Monday, June 19, 2006

Conversing with My Blog

Me: Hello there, long time no see.."ne"

My Blog: so desu ne. where have you been..

Me: I was very busy. sorry.

My Blog: Didn't you miss me :(

Me: yeah..Well Actually, no I did not. Sorry.

My Blog: O_o; Really!
Are you that straightforward!!! ;_;.

Me: YES. Sorry. I know I am very arrogant when you don't expect me to...

My Blog: but Why??

Me: Keine Ahnung. Might be a "defense mechanism".

My Blog: defense? against what?

Me: against hypocrisy!

My Blog: are you suggesting I am ..

Me: No. I don't suggest dear, I just say what I think. Unless I state it clear, you'd better think good of me ;). Don't assume...

My Blog: ok :). I can see that you are very direct...

Me: You have no idea. It is costly too, you know.

My Blog: haha, I bet...

Me: cool, I think we're friends again.

My Blog: when were we not?

Me: while I was off.

My Blog: yeah, you didn't say where you were off?

Me: Told you. I was at BusyLand. A very disturbing area...

My Blog: Honto?

Me: honto. in BusyLand, everyone wears the BusyFace and is ruled by StressLaw. Not a good place to visit. I don't recommend.

My Blog: why did you go there then???

Me: I didn't go there. I live there. I am stuck there. Anyway, Soon, I'm leaving to FreeLand.

My Blog: and where is that??

Me: in AnyWheresLand.

My Blog: Where is that too ??

Me: oh, you exasperate me. aren't you good at Geography. go google it ;). hehehe.

My Blog: yeah right, very funny.

Me: indeed, quite funny. :P

My Blog: I have second thoughts.

Me: about...

My Blog: "we friends"...

Me: hahaha, take your time. I'm in in a hurry.
I will be back in another while. so you may have a third to a 100th thought my dear "friend"..

My blog: Now, you're being sarcastic.

Me: do you mind?

My Blog: No, I love sarcasm.

Me: so I guess we're still friends. :P

My Blog: I am at my "fifth" thought for now ...

Me: great, you do sarcasm too. Very nice ;)

My Blog: see, you're not the only one.

Me : didn't say I were. My imagination won't betray me, I guess...

MY Blog: You're mean :P

Me: I know :P and you're very clever.

My Blog: yeah, you know...the product of your imagination ! ;)

Me: :)), ok, gotta go. Was very nice chatting with you my imagination. Talk to you later.

My Blog: . kiotsukette

Wednesday, June 07, 2006

True Friendship

This is a text I've read and liked. Just wanna share it with people who value friendship :) ...

- Recognition
How can we find true friendship in this often phony, temporary world? Friendship involves recognition or familiarity with another's personality. Friends often share likes and dislikes, interests, pursuits, and passion.

How can we recognize potential friendship? Signs include a mutual desire for companionship and perhaps a common bond of some kind. Beyond that, genuine friendship involves a shared sense of caring and concern, a desire to see one another grow and develop, and a hope for each other to succeed in all aspects of life. True friendship involves action: doing something for someone else while expecting nothing in return; sharing thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or negative criticism.

- Relationship, Trust, Accountability
True friendship involves relationship. Those mutual attributes we mentioned above become the foundation in which recognition transpires into relationship. Many people say, "Oh, he's a good friend of mine," yet they never take time to spend time with that "good friend." Friendship takes time: time to get to know each other, time to build shared memories, time to invest in each other's growth.

Trust is essential to true friendship. We all need someone with whom we can share our lives, thoughts, feelings, and frustrations. We need to be able to share our deepest secrets with someone, without worrying that those secrets will end up on the Internet the next day! Failing to be trustworthy with those intimate secrets can destroy a friendship in a hurry. Faithfulness and loyalty are key to true friendship. Without them, we often feel betrayed, left out, and lonely. In true friendship, there is no backbiting, no negative thoughts, no turning away.

True friendship requires certain accountability factors. Real friends encourage one another and forgive one another where there has been an offense. Genuine friendship supports during times of struggle. Friends are dependable. In true friendship, unconditional love develops. We love our friends no matter what and we always want the best for our friends.